Yall need to learn to starch yer panties as well... It helps.

What is best in life?
Crush your enemies. See them driven before you. Hear the lamentations of their women.

Griefers really enjoy hearing your cries...Its the only real joy they have in life.

People who get emotionally invested in video games often get upset when they don't win.

Wait - does that mean I'm not emotionally invested in VO? That worries me...

If that 'worries' you then you've just fallen into the sand trap.

'griefer' is an over-used label.

Someone trying to disrupt your trading is not griefing you.

Someone beating you over and over in Sedina B8 is not griefing you.

If you can fly away from him, and you don't, he is not griefing you.

If you're a noob out of crystal and stuck in ec class ship and can't escape your home sector for 45 minutes because 'that guy' is solely focused on you... you found one. In that case, log out, go have a snack or do a chore, log back in, he's probably moved on.